Top 10: Ways to Lose Weight

I realize that losing weight is much more than just 10 steps- it’s a matter of changing your lifestyle to a more healthier one.  If anyone knows the ups and downs of losing weight, it is me, as I have been overweight my entire life.  I’ve tried every diet known to man and it boils down to one thing:  You have to change your lifestyle one step at a time until it becomes a natural part of your life.  Otherwise the weight loss will not be permanent, and you will be in a vicious cycle of gaining and losing.  (who wants to go through it over and over? not me!)

I know this sounds odd, but I’ve realized that weightloss is 80% mental, and 20% hard work.  You HAVE to be mentally ready to lose weight, change how you think, and have the determination to follow through.  There’s no magic pill or easy solution! I know that sounds discouraging, but it’s very possible- just don’t give up!

Here’s what I have changed in the last 3 years to lose 110 pounds:

  1. Be realistic in your goals.

    This is key!  If you are trying to lose weight for bikini season and plan on losing 20 pounds in 2 months, you will be disappointed.  It takes time to lose weight the correct way- 2 pounds per week is the maximum.  If you’d like to lose 20 pounds, plan on it taking at least 10-12 weeks.  If you are trying to rush your weight loss, you will get discouraged when it doesn’t happen and will give up.  Mentally prepare yourself for the realistic time frame- your goal is to be healthier, not just skinny!
  2. Change just one thing at a time.

    This is the most important step if you want your weight loss to be permanent.  It’s much easier to stick to a “diet” if you do it gradually.  The first week, switch out your pepsi for diet pepsi.  Next week, switch it to flavored water.  Next week, switch to plain water.  You have to wean your taste buds slowly or you will feel deprived.
    Here’s a rough plan of what I did to change my eating habits:
    - Week 1:  Switch out my diet pepsi’s for water, and drink 6-8 water bottles’ worth.
    - Week 2:  Switch out desserts and goodies for fresh fruits and healthy desserts (like cinnamon baked apples or sliced strawberries with sugar free whipped cream)
    - Week 3:  Switch out pastas for proteins
                        This was SO HARD!  I am Italian and love my pastas! But, I make an amazing healthy chicken parmigiana with pasta sauce on top.  This is carb free (mostly), tastes great, and is even more filling than pasta.   Also instead of eating sandwiches, I will get those sandwich thins or low carb tortillas to make a healthy wrap. These have much less carbs and still taste great.
  3. Fill your body with nutrients- not junk.

    This is more a mental thing than anything.  Instead of telling yourself “I can’t eat this. I can’t eat that.”  Tell yourself:  ”What can I eat today that will feed my body the vitamins and nutrients it needs?”  If you focus on what you should be feeding your body to make it healthy, you won’t have any room left in your stomach for the junk.
    When I plan what I’m eating for the day, I try to get as many veggies and fruits in as possible and as varied as possible.  Here’s a sample of what I’ll eat:
    -  Breakfast:  An orange and a small omelette with bell pepper, onions, and mushrooms (I get vitamin C, protein, and veggies)
    -Snack:  Apple with one spoonful peanut butter
    -  Lunch:  Mexican Salad and Sliced Strawberries/Blueberries  (I get my lean protein, colorful veggies, and red and blue fruit- the more colors the better!)
    - Snack:  Snap peas or low fat string cheese
    -  Dinner:  Grilled chicken, green beans, and sliced peach with sugar free whipped cream on top :)
    Do you see how varied and colorful my meals were? No starches, yet I got all my nutrients:  lean protein, colorful veggies, and variety of fruits.  This all tastes amazing and since there’s such variety, I don’t feel deprived at all!  Plus I was so busy cramming in all my veggies, that my stomach had no room for junk.
  4. Drink water.

    I’ll admit- this was hard for me as I really love my diet cherry pepsi.  Don’t get me wrong, I still have one occasionally but 90% of what I drink is water.  I’ve noticed a HUGE difference in how my skin looks- it’s more hydrated, glowing, and acne free.  I can’t explain it, but water really does make you 100 times more healthy.
    To make it easier on myself, I will use the crystal light drink packets (yes, I realize that pure water is better but at least I’m drinking water instead of junk).   Make sure to get your full 60+ ounzes in- it will keep your hunger cravings at bay.
  5. Have healthy snacks prepacked and visible in your fridge.

    This is another small thing to do that makes a huge impact!  Do not keep any bad snacks in your house- not even those 100 calorie pack snack bags as what nutrients do they provide your body? They’re empty calories (plus they cost a fortune). Your goal is to nourish your body- give it what it wants:  vitamins and nutrients.
    Get your favorite kind of nuts and put them in snack size bags. Store in your pantry at eye level so you grab them when you are hungry.   Keep low fat string cheese in your fridge and put at eye level.  Make snack bags of cherry tomatoes, snap peas, carrots, red bell pepper- any veggie that you like and again:  store at eye level in your fridge.   Keep sugar free jello cups or sugar/fat free pudding cups on hand also.  (jello cups are 10 calories.  pudding cups are 70 calories)
    Here’s my top 10 healthy snacks video:  Top 10 Snacks to Help You Lose Weight
  6. Make Mrs Dash your friend.

    Whenever you grill your steak, chicken, or fish use Mrs Dash.  It has no salt, no fat, and comes in tons of flavors.  If you’re cutting out fats and calorie packed dressings, Mrs Dash will be your friend as you will still get the flavor but without the extra calories. For salads even, I will sprinkle some Mrs Dash to liven it up, then will use the smallest amount of dressing.  Guess what?? It still tastes amazing! :)
  7. Have your plate portioned out:  40% lean protein, 40% vegetables, 20% carbs

    My trainer gave me this tip:  most of your plate should be veggies and lean protein.  The smallest amount should be carbs. For women especially, carbs turn into fat if we eat too many of them.  You still need carbs to function throughout the day, but getting rid of the starchy carbs is key.  Instead of eating pastas and breads, eat rice and red potatoes.  But again, keep it at 20% of your plate.
  8. Make healthy desserts so you don’t feel deprived.

    Who wants to feel deprived when they’re trying to lose weight? You want to stay with this healthy eating for the rest of your life, so you might as well enjoy it.  I’ll try to do some healthy dessert videos soon, but some of my favorites are:
    - Baked apples:  peel and slice up 2 apples. Sprinkle with cinnamon, 2 truvia packets, and vanilla. Cover with foil and bake at 350 for about 40 minutes (or until slightly soft).  Put a bit of s/f whipped cream on top.
    - Fruit bowls:  I love pineapple, strawberries, and blueberries together. Add a bit of lime juice for a lil’ kick.
    - Sugar Free/ Fat free pudding.  Get whatever flavor you like.  I LOVE chocolate with a bit of sliced bananas in it- yummo!
    - Grilled pineapple with brown sugar.   I sprinkle slices of pineapple with just the slightest bit of splenda brown sugar or agave syrup and grill 3 minutes each side.  I’ll cut up and add sliced peaches.  It has a slightly caramel flavor to it.
  9. Find exercise that you love, and do it 4-5 times a week.

    I don’t know about you, but I feel like a hamster in a wheel when I go to the gym and just get on a treadmill.  Is no fun for me.  If I don’t do exercise that I enjoy, then I won’t stick to it.  My solution:  take aerobic classes.  I personally love step classes- my gym has it 4-5 times a week, so I go to each one.  Once I’m at the gym and do my class, I’m more likely to stay a bit afterwards and do some weight training or a bit more cardio on the elliptical machine.  I also love playing tennis, so I will grab a friend and play.  You have to find what you enjoy- whether it be walking, zumba class, swimming, etc…  You need to get 4-5 days a week and at least 30 minutes each time.
    Here’s my workout routine (you don’t have to follow- this is just what I did)
    - 3 days:  50 minute step class, followed by 30 minutes weight training
    -2-3 days:  walking/jogging.   Since it’s hard for me to run, I’ll start with walking then jog until I’m winded. Then go back to walking.  I keep going back and forth between walking/jogging until I can go longer with jogging.  If you’re not a jogger/runner, that’s ok- just walk.  Keep at a fair pace so you feel like you’re working your body (bring your ipod with lively music)
  10. Surround yourself with a support system.

    If this is going to be a permanent part of your life, you need to surround yourself with people who will not only support you, but be brutally honest with you.  If you gain weight, you need someone who loves you enough to notice- they’ll be the people you hold yourself accountable to.  Find a friend or loved one that you can exercise with- losing weight with a buddy is always easier than doing it alone!

I really hope these tips help some of you in your weight loss goals!  PLEASE do not give up on yourself- there will be times when it seems so hard, but keep going.  If you fall off the bandwagon, don’t stress- just get back on.  It happens to everyone- the key is to keep going until you reach your goal :)   I have been on my journey for 3 years now, and still haven’t met my goal but I keep going.

Stay healthy, makeup geeks!
xoxo,
Marlena

  • Milissa Wagner

    Awesome job!  Thanks for sharing.  I just wanted to share a salad tip.  For the dressing…ALWAYS put it on the side…not just in restaurants, but at home too.  Dip your fork in the salad dressing and then stab your vegetables and eat.  You will get the flavor in every bite but you will use very little dressing.  It sounds like you already have it figured out…and you may already know this tip but I wanted to share just in case it was new to you. 

    • Hellenac

      Great tip, so simple and so smart! Thanx!

    • Dawnwaldo

      Great tip about the salad dressing and I do the same thing. 

  • LiegeyGirl

    Thank you for the healthy tips!! I’ve always loved watching these videos from you and seeing your transformation! You are very inspiring and I love ya for that! I’ll have to try the sweets because I have a HUGE sweet tooth. I’ll also have to get the exercising together because I haven’t been doing too much since cracking my fibula bone. Thanks again!!

  • LiegeyGirl

    Thank you for that tip. I’ve heard of it before, but never actually did it. I’ll try it with my next salad!! :o )

  • Hellenac

    I LOOOVE your garbanzo beans recipe!!! I told my nutritionist about it and she was very pleased. I’ve lost 20 pounds and I feel like the healthiest hottest woman that ever graced the Earth (also, my husband says so every day) and there’s nothing like this feeling ;)

  • Myboysrock08

    Wow!! What an amazing transformation! I’ve been watching what I eat and exercising 6-7 times a week for an hour a day and in 12 weeks I’m down almost 21lbs!! Every single point you made here is 100% true – I’ve done them all & it really works!! Expecting to lose a bunch of weight in a short amount of time is most people’s biggest cause of failure. What we don’t realize is that it took a long time to put the weight on, it’s surely not going I come off easily. Hard work, change of eating habits “the “D” word is a no-no in our house” – the “D” word beig DIET!!! Who wants to diet forever?!? I’ve programmed my brain to eat better for long term success, not just dietin. Thanks for all the recipes tho – post some more…I’m gonna use these in addition to what I already eat! :)

  • Annar3334

    Thank you Marlena! XOXO

  • jen

    marlena, i have to say you were one of my first inspirations when i decided to go on my journey to lose this extra weight that i have, in addition to of course living a healthier lifestyle. i started out at 209 in 2010 and lost 50 pounds through exercise and proper diet by september of that year. i slacked off for a year after that and gained 15 of it back. now i’m back on track and have since lost about 12 of that 15. i still have about 38 lbs left before i get to my goal weight of 125 (i’m 5’3″) but i’m more than halfway there!

    thanks for bringing a more positive light to a healthier way to get fit. it’s never easy but you give so many inspiration. hard work and dedication is where it’s at.

    i’m now addicted to running and i attend a step class at my local college 2 days a week and run at my local park on the days i’m not there. i can’t imagine going back to the unhealthy lifestyle i was living and my attitude on food and exercising has done a complete turnaround since then. thanks again for being a positive inspiration to everyone!

  • http://twitter.com/Char0720 Charity

    What an inspiration you are. I also have struggled with my weight my entire life. I have gone up and down and up and down. I have only recently discovered that I CAN do this and that a lot of it is your mental capability of whether you can or can’t accomplish something. Kudos for your hard work and how beautiful you are! 

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Nancy-Gaal/1516025968 Nancy Gaal

    This  is the most excellent ‘real life’ advise I have read. We are bombarded with crazy articles and diets that never work for long term. 

    Thanks for the advice !!

  • Valles8oc

    Wow!! Thank so much for sharing. This helps me a lot to keep on going to what I want to accomplish. I already lost more than 25 lbs. I feel great. But what you post will help even more. Thank you once again.

  • Mica_roblez75

    I cannot believe thats you Marlena, your beautiful at any size but thats a big difference in size. wooow Congrats on all your achievements. and thank you for all the wonderful info you provide to us.

  • http://bellaonthebeach.wordpress.com Bella

    Excellent advice! You’re so right about the mental part if this. I know exactly what I should do to lose weight, it’s being consistent that is tough for me.

  • Claudia_lopreto

    aww marlene your awesome you totally inspire me ive been on the battle of losing weight as well considering a tummy tuck but my bf says i shouldn’t and try to lose it the normal way but its so hard. btw im going to be 22 on the 25th and for my height and age i am considered obese i weight 170-180 not really quiet sure afraid of the scale but friends tell me i should just exercise and eat right which i have been. im considering going to talk to a specialist maybe that will help but if not im definitely getting a tummy tuck not only to look better but to be healthy for my daughter i want to be around for a long time and see her grow up <3..

  • Cjanelle86

    wow! you are so pretty and even before the major weight loss. i love your videos on youtube and I’m on my weight loss journey as well I’ve lost 63LBS so far ans need to lose 80 more so its been very had and stuck at 228Lbs for months now and gald you posted these tips. Thank hope to see more videos for diet and fashion

  • Breebaby

    Love all of these tips…thanks for sharing. You are a true inspiration to everyone! 

  • Marielazamora55

    You did it ! Thanks so much for your honestly….god bless you

  • Alexustinker

    Wow you look amazing! This is very encouraging! I just had a baby and I need to lose about 20 more pounds. This really did help me realize that it CAN be done!! Thanks so much! You’re beautiful!

  • Jen

    Great job you look amazing marlena! Keep up the awesome work thanks for all the great tips:).

  • Lorenita_18

    Wowww es impresionante tu esfuerzo te felicito y me alientas ha poder yo hacer lo mismo… quisiera saber si tus videos los tienes en español….. eres muy buena…en todo lo que haces gracias por compartir con nosotras todas tus tecnicas eres la MEJOR… felicidades..

    • Mkellygurl7

      I have been trying to lose weight for almost 10 years now and I am having so much trouble sticking to a diet…. I need to get serious about this because my weight is starting to effect my health….But some of the things that I feared was losing some of my great features such as my butt and breasts. I know my health should be more important than that but those features are what i love about my body other than my smile and eyes. However, wearing a bathing suit and having that perfect hour glass again would be wonderful. What would you suggest I do to get over that fear and maintain the diet? Do you think i will lose my breasts and butt?

  • Redcarpetfaces

    Marlena you look amazing…I’m so proud of u!!!

  • Valentina

    LOV IT!!!!!!!!!!!1

  • Mswilkes1

    Great job, but my question is what do you eat when your out on a date or hanging with
    friends. 

  • Maryam

    u look so amazing! love you lots marlena! always look forward to your new vids on YouTube!

  • Dportletlc

    Congratulations, I know how hard it is. I just reverently lost 45 pounds, but I’m in a rut!!! Your tips sound great and I am looking for a new plan. Thanks for sharing this info it is really going to be helpful. You look terrific!!!

  • Vsbarbaro

    great job, I’m starting myself.. hardest part for me is exercising but I think using my bicycle is a good option for me.

  • Ana

    marlena your such an inspiration! you look so good! you’ve inspired my sister and i to do this lifestyle change i really hope we can keep this going see your before and after pictures gives me so much hope knowing that you had the will power and determination! im so proud of you!

  • http://twitter.com/jennacyde Jenna Urusky

    This is my FAVORITE before and after picture of you.  The after outfit is fierce! Feature of outfit ideas s’il vous plait! xoxo

  • MakeupDiva84

    You look so gorgeous. I am really in a rut. I am way over my limit but it’s just been so hard for me to get motivated to want to lose weight. I mean, I do want to lose weight but it’s just hard to get moving. Though, I’ve been starting to take daily walks and eating healthier, smaller portions. I wish the fat could just melt away, sadly it can’t unless I start moving a lot more. I need to lose like over 100lbs which will take a long time. But anyways, I’m happy for you. You look really good.

  • Heather

    You are so inspirational! IDK what else to say! I myself, am trying to loosse weight and to see your amazing transformation, it just makes me feel like I can really do it! Thank you for sharing such a personal journey with all of us!

  • Evelynn

    Dear Marlena,

    I came across your “Top 10 snacks” video and it was great.  I almost didin’t recognize you as I thought you looked familar and then realized I saw a few of your make up videos a long time ago.  All I remembered was I really enjoyed them. 

    I think you’ve done an amazing job and you look absolutely beautiful!  Thanks for the wonderful tips!  You’re not only beautiful but also seem to be a real friendly person and your videos are very inspiring.  This world needs more people like you!  =)

  • Besskatherine

    Great tips! You’re looking amazing, keep up the good work :)  

    http://auroraxo.blogspot.com 

  • Jessi

    I have lost 15 pounds in 3 months by exercising and cutting off pasta, bread, rice, potatoes and corn… I know this sounds horrible… it is sometimes… but you have to persevere and be strong. I know what it feels like to be overweight and laughed at… but no more!!! 

    The thing that made me change was that I recently learned that I had pre-diabetes. I am 5 ft 10 in and I weighed 216 lbs. my BMI is 160-165…. it was a complete wake up call for me, but I knew I had to do this…. 3 months later I now weigh 200 lbs and I shrunk at least a size in my pants. (from 18-16/15) I am proud of myself… but I know this is just the beginning… thank you Marlena for encouraging me to continue on my journey!!! :D  

    Good things are yet to come! 

  • BricellyOrtiz

    Marlena!! You are such an inspiration:) I will definitely use all of your tips!! I just started my journey a couple of Weeks ago and am down 6lbs!! I will take your before and after and put it as my screensaver for motivation:)

  • Katia Morgan

    Marlena, you are gorgeous and so inspiring! Thank you so much for being such a wonderful role model :)

  • Gina Carrillo

    Hi Marlena, just found your simply Marlena website today and loving it. A BIG THANK YOU for posting this article! I just started my weight loss journey last week and I have lost 2 lbs so far. So many great ideas here, love to hear all your meal ideas and recipes-absolutely! Everything you recommend sounds healthy and delicious!!!

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_STRDCMLBO5JP7QYIZNFM35G3SI kalli

    Well, that just answered my question about what your exercise routine was! The before/after pics are really amazing! What an achievement. I have battled with weight my entire life, I’ve been overweight, underweight, now I am about 20-25 pounds overweight. I should look into my local gyms and see what they have to offer. What an inspiration you are!:D.

  • Anna

    Wow Marlena :) thanks so much for the advice. You look great!

  • Sweetkiss4ever4u

    Wonderful tips Marlena! Congrats on your success thus far. Thank you for being so encouraging to us so that we can have the faith to continue on our journey as well. Continued success xox

  • Habiba_usman

    Your such an inspiration, you make it look soo easy!! Im trying to loose 5 stones but its soo difficult :-(
    Can you please suggest a sour/salty snack like crisps?

    Thank you
    XoxoxoX

  • Tiniesha1006

    This deffinetly help me tonight. I was getting depressed because it was gettting hard for me nto give up my fave meals and snacks and not nto over eat. But with these tips, i’ll keep myself on track and keep reminding myself, its not about what i’m bout to lose but the healthier lifestyle i’m gonna gain.
    Thx Marlena XOXOXO

  • Monique McKenzie

    I love the tip about changing one thing at a time, I always start out with all or nothing. Tomorrow, I will change one thing, thanks so much!
    Take good care,
    Monique

  • Sophia

    Wow! You’re truly an inspiration. I’ve also been overweight all my life and all I do is loosing and keep gaining the weight back again. The reason is what you said, you’ve got to change mentally first. I’ve just started my diet again and you’re my role model!!!

  • Ruthie

    Thanks you are my inspiration “god bless you” I’m on my way to loosing weigth and “YES!!!” it’s hard at times. With all this temptations with sweets and delicious food and no time to cook with my busy life….. -thank you!!!! :D I will follow your 10 tips in loosing weight ” thank you again :)

  • Fathiah Azmi

    Thank you so much for sharing! This will help a tonne! I’m trying to lose weight too and it’s not that easy, a lot of discipline I’d say. Keep up with the great work! 

  • A33y21

    You are such an amazing person marlena! And your so beautiful!

  • Ash

    You are so inspirational. Thank you for being so open and upfront about your weightloss. Sometimes it’s hard to feel gorgeous when you’re heavy but you were working it, and you make me feel like I can do it too.

  • http://twitter.com/UrBaNdEcAyQt Mandy

    you look amazinggg! about 4 yrs ago i got healthy and worked out almost every day.lost 35lbs . then a month later found out i was pregnant and got lazy now 2 kids later im trying to do it again. i really would love to lose 30-35lbs so im trying to stick with it one day at a time. you are huge inspiration!!

  • pavani reddy

    u did an amazing job with urself marlena..i m so pround of u…

    http://megalivingg.blogspot.in/

  • http://www.facebook.com/latoya.hodson Latoya Hodson

    Girl you look good…I want to lose 40 pounds…any suggestions for something I can eat on the go in the morning without cooking…

  • http://www.facebook.com/melissa.valdez.54 Melissa Valdez

    My inspiration! She lost her weight 100% the “right” way…..eating right and working out. Gotta Keep on keepin’ on!

  • noor

    hey was just going through your tips.. and they seem to be quite helpful but actually i am in high school and i hardly get time to do such stuff or make nutritive kinda food for me…do you lyk know any easiest way to loose weight …or would recommend gyming ??